Re read a lot of the MLC threads last night. Trying to regain my focus. Both of our daughters are contemplating divorce, with small children. Their example is "You did it Mom". I have to remind it what a great time I had working with 4 kids and keeping food on the table. Didn't know I made it look easy.
Anyway - blocked the emails from H, so he can quit pushing my buttons and robbing me of any peace I have. Had a long talk with God.
SA, Thanks for stopping by my thread, I think that the when we go through these periods when nothing seems to be happening, we tend to think the worst thoughts and in reality our MLC spouses are in utter turmoil as most of them later confess whether they come back or not.
I think eventually they will come clean about the things they are experiencing. If I had to guess your H may look back on this particular time and recall that you had dropped the rope and how he was scared.
A more likely reason for giving the key back is to get a reaction out of you. His way of testing you or sucking you back in.
Amazing how we can't see what is going on in our own sitches but we can flip over to each others and see with great clarity!!!
You just told me how my wife is trying to suck me in which I knew but needed to hear it. I come over here to catch up on you and it is so very clear to me.
Why is that??
I am detached from your situation, therefore I see the sitch for it is.
Time.......more Time is what it takes.....hang in there.
Cheers
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
