I wanted to give y’all an update on the weekend’s happenings!
Joined my h at 2pm Sunday so that we could drive over to his company Christmas party. He saw my outfit and said that it would not have been his first choice for the party . I didn’t change cause I liked what I was wearing and plus I thought it was appropriate. (was wearing gray slacks, very form fitting, and a black/red long sleeved shirt, form fitting with a deep v-neck) When he was dressed I told him he looked very very nice though to be a b...I said that shirt would not have been my first choice. He said well you could have spoken up and picked something out for me (wow he'd let me do that?) but I said no I'm just joking you look very hot. He let me kiss him on the cheek.
We left at 3pm, got at hotel and explored room, unpacked. We stayed at a very ritz posh place! $180 per night!!! H brought a 64 oz bottle of crown! His friends came over for drinks. Went to dinner and h was real affectionate though he was already a little drunk. Got back to room and ml. Went down to party. H still very affectionate , introducing me to all his friends as his w .
We took a photo as a couple. H said the picture came out very well! He ended up taking the photo home!!!
At one point in the evening, h wondered off. I didn’t think anything of it until I got up to go to the restroom and found him talking to a woman . I wasn’t going to butt in but h motioned me to come over so I did. He introduced me saying do you remember so and so. That is when I realized it was the same woman whom I had found in his apartment this time last year . (He’d said she had indicated quite clearly she was interested in him...well duh! I made it quite clear to her when I found her that h was still my husband (first time h introduced me to anyone as his w!!! ) Well come to find out she works with him…he said he had told me that but I don’t recall. Anyway when would he have told me this past year when we have been very estranged? I mean he made it quite clear that his going ons were none of my business! I was mad but chit chatted with her then went to the restroom. Later in the room, he asked why I was putting on lipstick I said just in case there is more competition downstairs. He said what does that mean? I said well you didn’t tell me that woman worked here so maybe there are others like her. He said I know I told you I had gotten her a job here…I said no you did not. He said well whatever I would not get with anyway here at work anyways. I said oh not here at work well where then? He said he doesn’t know but not with anyone at work . I lay down on the bed and he came over to give a very long kiss, hugged me as I got up.
Rest of the evening we had fun at the casino, then went downtown for drinking and dancing. Came back to room about 2am to ml . Then went to bed.
In morning, lay around till about 11am. He held my hand as we lay there. He wasn’t drunk either which I thought was promising .
Left the room went to lunch then back to his apartment. He didn’t ask me to come up so I loaded up in my van then sat there to check my voicemails. He came back down and asked if I was leaving? I said in a bit he said why don’t you come up . So I sat in his apartment watching a movie for 2 hours then left at 3pm to get my boys from school.
That was the end of our time together. We didn’t talk much about anything. Not any r talk though I did mention this ow .
Overall I guess our time together was a success. I had fun if nothing else . I just wish/pray that he would say the words…lets move back in together!!!! Gosh I want that so bad!
. I didn’t change cause I liked what I was wearing and plus I thought it was appropriate. (was wearing gray slacks, very form fitting, and a black/red long sleeved shirt, form fitting with a deep v-neck) When he was dressed I told him he looked very very nice though to be a b...I said that shirt would not have been my first choice. He said well you could have spoken up and picked something out for me (wow he'd let me do that?) but I said no I'm just joking you look very hot. He let me kiss him on the cheek. 
, introducing me to all his friends as his w 
. I wasn’t going to butt in but h motioned me to come over so I did. He introduced me saying do you remember so and so. That is when I realized it was the same woman 
) Well come to find out she works with him…he said he had told me that but I don’t recall. Anyway when would he have told me this past year when we have been very estranged? I mean he made it quite clear that his going ons were none of my business! I was mad but chit chatted with her then went to the restroom. Later in the room, he asked why I was putting on lipstick I said just in case there is more competition downstairs. He said what does that mean? I said well you didn’t tell me that woman worked here so maybe there are others like her. He said I know I told you I had gotten her a job here…I said no you did not. He said well whatever I would not get with anyway here at work anyways. I said oh not here at work well where then? He said he doesn’t know but not with anyone at work 
. Then went to bed.
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. I just wish/pray that he would say the words…lets move back in together!!!!
