If you are venting LESS OFTEN per week NOW than you were a month ago that's a better way to measure progress.
oh for sure. it's just that i've vented about my h calling me 'greedy' and money hungry many times in the past that it came across as whiny.
i know why it bothers me so much but for those who don't know me would say that i'm whining about the name-calling.
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Go find some posts you made two or three months ago and compare to the last few weeks... Take a full sample
A single vent isn't a measure of success, failure, or really much of anything...
omg, 2-3 months ago i was a complete nut case. i needed serious therapy. i had this jekyll and hyde thing going on a weekly basis.
i'm so much better now. i haven't had a crazy post in a few months. but holy crap, it was so bad that it's embarrassing - it's even more embarrassing because it's posted on this board so it's public. if it wasn't for a few people on this board, i would have done some bad things to myself.
if you have time, you should read my latest post in 'separated'. it really shows where i am now. don't read the entire thread. it would take you until next sunday.
