Bobby,

Please re-read Mach's post. Even if you believe it's too late and you'll be getting a divorce, you still need to do the mirror work.

Let that be one of the blessings of your journey. Take a good hard look at you. Commit to being the best dad and Bobby O you can be.

Do the work and some day, believe it or not, you'll be thankful for your W's MLC.

Take care of you and the kids. Let go and let God take care of your W.