NC, I just think it's easier for some of our X's to be angry and bitter at us rather than maybe look at themselves. I'm sure she has moments where she has regrets over her actions, and if not, well that would be too shallow to be believed.
I agree with you. These days are probably the happiest I've been in years. I'm tempted sometimes to thank my X, but then nah, I realize that would be silly! I do appreciate so many good friendships I've made because of the D: friends here and elsewhere. I appreciate my life and blessings much more now; I'm sure you do also...