Sorry about your day. And the actions of your H. What would happen if you do just go dark for awhile? I know he is pushing you and rushing you - but what's the rush on your side? I say this, all the while knowing, I have D papers coming any day. Pushing it to the L puts it on the L's time.
I agree with Eric - take a step back and take care of yourself.
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time