ummm ... the but means you don't, or at least don't want to.
Originally Posted By: punkin
Come one, admit it. That was a pretty good smack I gave him, wasn't it. Just one tiny, itty, bitty, you go girl?
P, I save my "atta girls" for moments where folks are growing, learning and reaching beyond themselves to find better ... hon, that was just you wanting to be right, wanting to have YOUR say, to get it off your chest. Do you think that most of us don't WANT to say all kinds of things at any given time? Seriously... who controls your actions? You or H? Sorry to say it.
You are capable of more. You are letting him push your buttons and only YOU can stop it. Only YOU can find peace for yourself. STOP engaging. STFU. Do not reply to ANYTHING. PERIOD. Spunk is good, you've got it in spades and we all enjoy your attitude as you know ... but anger won't help you. It's normal, a part of the process, but you need to see that anger and resentment won't help you along your journey ...
Keep digging .... keep going ....
Oh, and good work at the restaurant btw
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
