Cathy, I was also wondering... was this an issue in the old R? H would tell you he would call, and then you would get controlling and wonder why he didn't call when you thought he should call? Could this be a test to see if you will get angry? JMHO
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.