First off.....WHACK, WHAM, BAM, BOOM, POP, do ya get it? I think you do.
I am sorry that your H is pressuring you. I really am. So what is done is done. Please honey, stop responding to him. Please. Stop putting things on paper. Stop agreeing to anything.
Now do me a favor and remove all email access from yourself.
Seriously, Pun...he is fuc*ing with you. He is trying to get you riled up. It helps with his own justification.
Contact your L and share the email with him. Explain to your L what has been going on. Find out if this email legally binds you.
Finally, crack a beer, smoke a fatty do what you need to do to calm down. Your better than this. I can see it your post and you know it. So pick yourself up, dust yourself off and next time he call don't pick up the fu*king phone.
((((Hugs))))
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans