No. the DB board is my IC, The MC wasn't of value for a couple reasons. 1-Though my W said in the initial "couple" meeting that she wasn't sure if she wanted to try (and MC hit her point blank with "Are you seeing anyone else?") in retrospect she had been EA for at least 4 months and PA was confirmed later at one month.
2)After W's only solo session (where MC claimed to have asked abou an OM again-again denied), when I asked when our next session was she told me "I don't see the point. I've said all I needed to say". Found out later from W that MC apparently asked her about 8 questions and then told W "You're done and he just doesn't get it". What kind of MC gives somebody the answer. When I asked the MC about it after, she said "Your W needed to face her truth" Who talks like that?
It was funny that when we went to our first mediation and the guy asks "What attempts at reconcilliation have you made?', my W said "We went to MC'ing"!! I actually laughed out loud and said "Attending two sessions doesn't mean you did anything"
Then he asks what grounds are we to use for the D. She says "We ceased to live as man and wife since Aug 2009" I interjected and said "ADULTERY in April is why we are here. Those are the grounds. They are NOT negotiable" Should have seen the look on her face.
