W came by we had a huge blowup, I told her I was fine with her decision to leave, but to do it not talk to me about it in refenerence to our children really got me boiling. She still kept going to the lying stuff, she thinks I lie about everything now, she cant trust me this and that. I told her it was disrespectful for her to say the best thing for the kids is her leaving me. I told her that is inappropriate and she said she meant its the best thing for her. I replied that its probably the best thing for me as well, and to leave the kids out of it. I told her that "we" need to talk to the kids about what is going on, she is doing all this on a minutes notice and without consulting me, I told her they are my kids too, and she needs to stop making decisions for them and not include me, I will bring all this up in court when we have our hearing. I am so pissed right now I cant even see straight,,,,help....
