Still trying to find my way

[Mystik]

He does so have terms he is expecting me to file under. He is planning on doing this through We the People, no attorneys involved. He is expecting me to file on the grounds of constructive abandonment, that he's willing to be the bad guy. He is expecting me to file when he wants, on the grounds he wants, through the place he wants.

Should I just respond that my attorney will be in touch? Should I even let him know I'm going to have an attorney? Or should I just tell him I'm still deciding on my terms and let him find them out if/when he gets served?

So this weekend I'll be going back through all my bank statements printing them out, highlighting the charges for DS and car insurance, as well as the deposits of checks received from him. I might see if I can get statements from the doctors' offices and pharmacy for DS and use those instead of my bank statements. I'll make two copies, one for me and one for my lawyer. I'll also give Dan a copy, if he still refuses to pay up what he owes me then I'll go from there.

I'm hoping that I won't be forced into filing but if I am, I'm filing on the grounds of adultery. Going to call my dad and see when he can meet me at the bank so I can get a loan to pay for an attorney, then once I know that date I'll call to set up an appointment with my attorney. Filing is the last thing I want to do, but I feel like he's forcing me into it. So I either write off the $650 dollars as a loss or let him bully me into doing something I don't want to do. Either way, I lose my husband and I lose money.