Still trying to find my way

[Mystik]

As promised, today I sent H the e-mail detailing how much he owed me. It led to a tense correspondence.

What about the other checks I've given you? Like the one I just gave you where I said to cash it immediately to make sure it clears and you still haven't cashed it. I'm calling BS on your accounting. Especially with the stunt you pulled by not paying any summer daycare.

If you want more of a cooperative stance from me, try working with me on some other things.

I'll get copies of my bank statements going back to September showing what checks I have written out for DS's care against what checks from you I have deposited. Why don't you do the same and then you'll see just how often you've reimbursed me.

The check you gave me last week has been misplaced.

How's about we settle this with the divorce agreement, even though I know I don't owe you as much as you're saying I do, I'd be willing to pay it if you'll have the decency to agree to a divorce.

If I'm forced into filing then it will be on my terms, not yours.

He eventually responded, asking what my terms are. I didn't answer because I honestly don't know what all my terms are. He called me after work, left a voice mail saying that my response about if I'm forced to file it will be on my terms struck a chord with him, that he doesn't really have terms so if I do to please tell him what they are. Said that I basically have him over a barrel, sky's the limit so see what I can do.