Its hard to know what to do when you are the one that wants things to work, but are at the breaking point. I have been thinking, that after trying everything, is to let them see what life is like without you. But, it could go either way - either they will realize what they are missing or they will get exactly what they want.
Me:36 H:38 Together: 20 years Married: 16 years Kids: 13 & 10 yr. old Discovered affair: 1/10 H denies affair. Refuses to save marraige. Divorce filed: December 2010
