Di - Our stories are SO much alike. H and I both work in schools. 3 kids / older 2 daughters / youngest S is 16. When our girls were younger it was dance practice everyday and basketball for S. Your initial statements about how your identity was as a wife and mother reflects me exactly. You sound strong and committed. Does your H have OP? Has H filed for D?
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time