I often try to tell a LBH that it doesn't do much good to try to convince his WAW of how much he loves her, how he will stick with the M regardless, on & on. The reason is simply this......if she is a true WAW in an A, then nothing like that is going to impress her. In fact, she feels so utterly turned off toward him that everytime he opens his mouth...she feels disgusted. Sorry to be so rough, but I'm trying to get the full impact of the statement through. One man told me that I was too "plain" and it hurt his feelings. Yes, it hurts--but how will he know what he's facing if somebody doesn't tell him the truth? WAW's can be very cold hearted b/c they are so "done" to the point of feeling sick at the thought of one more minute under the same roof with H. I don't think most men really "get" that. Maybe that's why many continue to "talk, talk, talk" to the WAW trying to convince her she doesn't know what she really wants. Now, that will get her mad!
Anyway, that is why not talking about the R is so important. It really is like poison every time he tries to reason with her.
