Thanks ! I know now I can't make him call, and see the Girls, I just can't believe he is acting this way. I know he doesn't want me in his life anymore, but I thought he would have more contact with the Girls, excpecially since this is still new and he has only been gone for a month.

Another problem I am having Is, yes, I am still his facebook friend, I know I need to unfriend him, I am just having a hard time doing it, I quess that means I am not really detaching. He is rarely on, although more so lately. I know this is not healthy. All I have to do is click it. I must be crazy, why would I want to remain FB friends with a man who doesn't want me in his life anymore.


Me:43
H:43
T:20 YRS
M:15 YRS
Bomb: 6/9/08
Bomb#2 7/6/10
Served with papers at work 7/13/10
DD:14, DD:11