Wow. A lot going on with your C.

I must admit, this supports my theory of marriage - there are 3 parts to every marriage, but only one bad part can bring it down. Those 3 parts? The 2 individuals, and the 1 couple.

Anyways, I wish the best of luck to your H. It ain't easy to hear people tell you things are your fault. Sounds like your C knows his stuff - 1 appointment and he knows how to deal with your H? Wow.

And of course, I wish the best of luck to you also.

FF