think of it this way. The more you can acquire now helps down the road with negotiations, helps with trading and helps with getting what you want. Remember to gather what you know he wants but does not know this now. So later on you trade it back for something else. Or you can offer it as an olive branch.

This is business. If you cannot handle talking this with him face to face. Write it out and converse via email.

Keep it on topic. Start to divide.

And if you are not getting what you want have your lawyer deal with the issue.

Remember divorce gets nasty. So prepare for this. The level of nastiness is up to the both of you.

And if you cannot deal with this now. Take a week and get strong to deal with it.

Then deal with it.

It is not going to go away.

Hugs RDW

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