Don't worry i have a message into to him to check for a SBT in SA. I'll let you know asap!
My h has been unfaithful...but the infidelity is not one of my deal-breakers...I've forgiven h. I did mention the condoms in my h's gym bag that was the catalyist for my filing for d and the c said that our problems are not irrepariable. The mercy God showed to me I wholeheartedly believe is what I need to extend to my unbelieving spouse. The word does say that to God all sin is the same...lying and adultery carry the same weight with God and would be punishable by death expect that Jesus took the punishment. I can forgive my h his infidelity since God has forgiven me so much, in other words. (And it ain't easy to do...sometimes we have to pray EVERY DAY to have a forgiving heart...with my h that is an every day thang!!!)
Don't worry I'll let you know tomorrow what c says about SA.
