I plan on it PMA, she has already signed a lease, she wants me to tell my family about the D(which I have not yet) but I do plan on requesting that at the hearing.
I am not going to make it easy for her, I will be friendly and help her where I can but I won't be at her "disposal".
The funny thing is is that what she is doing is pretty much what my proposal was except I wanted the D put on hold. So all I can do now is go with what is happening and let the chips fall where they may.