I guess at this point I’m just journaling, or at least it feels like it.
So this weekend was nasty. She took my D8 out on a boat with friends of ours from our town, and took OM and his son also! We had an agreement that she was not to let OM around kids until 6 months after D is final or I would get full custody. But, I fear that it is unenforceable at this point, if ever. It has truly traumatized D8. D8 says while bawling, that she doesn’t think we will ever be a family again because W and OM call each other ‘honey’ in front of her. W asked her to keep it a secret, also so very unhealthy for D8.
DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT!!!
And then yes, this is probably unenforceable (as I think I advised when you brought it up), but that's no reason for you NOT to go full-tilt "PAPABEAR" on her sorry little derriere.
"Wife, regardless of what we agreed to legally, I think we can agree as parents that D8 is having a hard time with this, and that we BOTH want what's best for her regardless of how we feel about each other right now."
