During the conversation with h, I tried to be as forthright as I could. I tried to keep my voice calm and nuetral as I answered his where, why, who, what, how long questions about my night out. The only part that caused him to slam the door was when we could not decide who should call who!
I'm always the one to call. And when I do it's the wrong time, he's busy, he's watching tv. When I tried to ask when would be a good time to call he says no evenings are good cause he has a show on. So I stopped calling him. Now he wants me to go back to calling him? Argh!!!
Even after the events of this holiday, I wonder if this m is something I really want. I was horrified by the amount of R rated movies my h has allowed my children to watch. One he had on for them, Van Wilder, had lots of sexual content (ie, guys eating dog semen in an eclair, in congnito sex acts, obvious sex acts doggy style, jerking a dog off etc) and nudity (lots of bare breasts, thongs)...my boys are only 10 & 11. Then h wanted to watch Shakira in concert...she's a little trashy, I think. So when I opted not to let the kids watch it my h went into the bedroom throwing my son's teddy bear against the door. He's just really into these type movies that show lots of skin AND then lets our kids watch it. I just don't like it but didn't say anything because unfortunately my boys had already seen it during their last stay with h.
I know we have lots of issues in our m and with the raising of our kids. Hopefully and prayerfully, at tomorrow's counseling session solutions can be reached where these can be taken care of. My h just doesn't think these things hurt the kids.
