right NOW your H needs to man-up... The ball is in his court.
i felt like the 'h' in the relationship. and my h lacked a lot of the qualities that make a great guy.
he didn't lead. and that had me really bummed. he expected me to lead on everything. he just wanted to sit back and reap the benefits and take credit.
he's leading on the d process. omg. didn't read the laws on d. wanted to walk away with 80% .. and thought i was unfair and greedy for asking for 50%. i didn't even ask for spousal support or any other kind of support. just give me 50% of our assets and i'll go. he wants to fight me on the 50%. and claimed that i married him for his money.
then of course, his father gambles away his money and then turns around and asks for wedding money back. who exactly is the greedy here? is it really me?
