Talked to my old C and made a decision. I will stay here until x-mas, it gives me time to figure out what I want to do and it gives me the opportunity to try and save the M, again. If I move 12 hours back to home the chance of being able to work on the M will be slim. C thinks I should confront H about OW --to at least say that I know there is someone else. This is my second time through this and I need to lay everything out on the table. I’m very non-confrontational, but I’m not the one who rocked the boat, he did. Me keeping my mouth shut and letting him perpetuate the lie isn’t going to help anything.

Now I need to figure out how to say everything I need to say to H. How and when we are going to tell the kids. I guess it depends on when he is going to find an apartment. Power shifts back to him.

Dagny.


Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11
DB #1 4/2002-8/2003
Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out
Living with OW