"It's not an ulimatum. You told me what you want, and I'm telling you what's right for me. Do whatever you want."
Truth dart in the bullseye.
Let her come to you now.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
