Well last night was a night for surprisingly stupid stuff but lots of fun!!!
Asked my h to watch kids so I could go out....he's always clamoring for time with them so why not? So I pick up my friend and head to his place to drop off boys but I do not go in. He calls my cell and says what you can't come up. I say no cause I have my friend in the car and he hangs up on me. So I run up to his apartment and asked what is the problem? He says so you have time for your friends and not your husband...is that how it is? I say no but you never call to ask me to go out...he said well you can call me because all I do most nights is sit here and watch TV. I say is that what I know...NO...I have no idea what you do. I say don't give me a hard time cause I'm going out to have fun! He says where...I say I don't know. Oh, so now you don't KNOW he says. I say ok I'm going to Antone's. He says well you sure got money to blow!!! I say oh come on I don't bother you when you go out and spend your money partying. He says yeah where do I go partying. I say leave me alone cause I don't need this s**t!!! He says well how come you don't want to spend time with your h? I say you've already told me you are too busy watching TV to take my calls. He says I don't know how we are going to fix this if you never call then slams the bathroom door in my face. I say well you know what? I have a f*****g phone too!!! I say I'm out of here!!!
So then I'm in my van, it's about 15 minutes later and he calls my cell. He says go have your couple of drinks then come back to my place. I say ok got to go.
I don't come in until 3am!!! I had so much fun with my friends that I didn't want to come home but it was cold out and I was kind of tired by 2:30am!!! So I go back to his place and my h and I make L.
This morning he calls me to invite the boys and I to a hockey game. So now he's all hot to trot about going out with me.
In retrospect next time I won't call him to babysit when I go out. It bothered him too much to know my plans.
Anyway I guess progress is being made! He sees me moving on with my life and is getting scared that I'll get away!!! Cool!
Counseling is on Tuesday too!!! I'm sure he'll have lots to tell the MC. I'll say more Monday because I'll be with h the rest of the weekend!!!!
