Quote: The last time he had me on the phone for 45 minutes giving me reason to have sex. None of the reasons were I love you, I want our M to work, I'm sorry, etc.
Off the record Cindy, that raises a major, major red flag in my mind. I hope you have the strength to say no for your own sake let alone the M. Nothing of any substance will happen in the next 90 days unless you gain some measure of respect out of him. That appears to be sorely lacking, and much like trust, without respect, you really don't have anything concrete to build off of.
