You're welcome. Yes you have and knowing is have the battle so all you have to do is CHOOSE to CHANGE it.
You will not be DEFINED by the PAST but by the FUTURE.
The rings dont mean squat if the commitment is not there. They are symbols of a strong and loving marriage. She doesn't deserve to where it now anyway. Someday she might deserve it, but not today.
Get that book and Man up!! Your kids are counting on you to save your family. Whether it's with your WAW or not.