It took tears to get where you are now. It's going to take months for it to change.
She has made it clear that she isn't sure what she wants. So any choice made right now is yours.
Why did you have to post that?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! I have done all I could. ( I could list the actions) I am at the point now to where enough is enough without some small step. BUT I dont want to be the one to quit on my family. Its not in me. So I want her to choose. I really want to stay togther but I dont want to be doing this forever, treated bad, respected, happy, and something to look forward to also. Ya know?
