Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

She managed to turn a situation around on me and make me feel STUPID for even bringing it up.

You don't have access to her phone, e-mail, FB.

She has access to your phone and she snoops, why?

Because she thinks that I might be cheating on her. Cheater's mentality. She projects what she's done into fear of what could be done to her.

What was the point of bringing it up? It was a passive-aggressive way of pointing out the lack of respect she has for you.

Yep, you're right. Passive agreesiveness at it's best. I should have just told her that I didn't appreciate her going through my phone because it showed a lack of respect, and left it at that.
It just made you look weak.

Do you have a keylogger installed on your computers? You will get tested numerous times.

No. I have respected her boundary of not "spying" on her until after the MC. I'm pretty sure that if I broke that boundary, it would be over. I'm willing to wait 1 day.