"The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them."
I'm going to say something that may sound harsh...but it's not meant to be an attack. If you continue to spend time with your H and listen to his crap, YOU are choosing to abuse yourself. at this point, you are the one hurting yourself, not him, because you could elect to walk away from anyone who shows so little respect for you.
No offense taken. I appreciate all the advice I receive on this forum. It's true. It's time to go effing dark and kick him in the balls (mentally, of course). LOL.
Originally Posted By: ImprovedRomeo
I'm seeing your mindset shifting where you're starting to see him in his true colors and I'm proud of you for that!
Yes I do see that it's clear he doesn't want to be with me. Ok. No more 80s songs (unless it's something by Boy George--love him or Wham!)
