She managed to turn a situation around on me and make me feel STUPID for even bringing it up.
You don't have access to her phone, e-mail, FB.
She has access to your phone and she snoops, why?
What was the point of bringing it up? It was a passive-aggressive way of pointing out the lack of respect she has for you.
It just made you look weak.
Do you have a keylogger installed on your computers? You will get tested numerous times.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.