It appears that I'm locked out of my old thread which is at "FIGHTING FOR M AND H". Now I start this new thread appropriately as still fighting for m & h. My h agreed to a 90 day continuance at our hearing on Nov 17th. He said we'll need to go to counseling. I'm praying like a fiend that he really means to save this m. He said that it does MEAN something because he could have told the judge he wanted to move on with his life but did not. I'm not sure I even know why he did it...only God knows.
Now I'm looking for advice on how to handle this situation. My h still wants to be intimate but being intimate with so far as resulted in no change in our r or change in his behavior. I'm thinking that NO SEX would be the way to go while we go to MC. I do think we should date, talk, build new r but leave sex out of it.
Anyone else got any ideas on how to handle this next 90 days? If I play off what he does, I'll be having sex because he is very adamant about that...says that we might as well get d if we ain't doing it! This last time he had me on the phone for 45 minutes giving me reason to have sex. None of the reasons were I love you, I want our m to work, I'm sorry, etc. His reasons were we've been doing it, we are m, I do it when you want it why can't you when I want it, etc.
