Wii I don't understand? why go to a zoo in Canada when you can take a walk down to the neighborhood mall... lol
CG, I totally hear you and because of that I'll donate my private jets and give up my current rich and famous lifestyle. I mean who needs these worldly possessions anyway? From now on I'll live humbly because it's what the first class men do.
IR <--- a first class man!
Pick you up in my shopping cart?
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Hey K, thanks for stopping in! Funny you should ask I just added some bicycle mirrors and a bell to it. It's upgraded and ready to roll!
CG, I'm working on saving up for something better for you!
Luv, we know if there's a party the answer is 'yes' that's why we don't have to ask you
Sol, you're more than welcome to join the party! I'll just need to see a letter from your legal guardian...don't want to get in trouble ya know!
Do you ladies think STBXW will get a little jealous?
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
So my day turned a bit sour yesterday as soon as I got this new communication from her L which is all vague and confusing:
My client reminded me that we have not dealt with non-school time daycare in the summer and when school is out on the various recesses and holidays. In the attempt to have an order with the utmost clarity we suggest that Mr. R pay the rate of 1/2 of the after and pre-school care at the public school. We can clarify that during the school year (not including non-school days) Mr. R's portion would be $x. Is this acceptable? I will have my client advise the cost of summer and holiday times when there is no school and provide you this information at your earliest convenience
I'm tempted to tell my L to write them something like this:
"My client has been more than flexible and fair in this proceeding. Mr. R has already agreed to pay 1/2 of the day care expenses during school. At this point Mr. R can't make any further financial committments until the case is brought before the court for a final settlement. In the interest of the minor I suggest that both your client and mine pay for any non-school related activities individually as they deem necessary.
Hope you have a wonderful day in hell!- Mr. R's atty."
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
I wouldn't be tempted - that is exactly what I would write.
Or, if she wants MORE help on a monthly basis tell you would be happy to do that IF she signs the house over to you and waives any further money/settlement from the house at once. No thinking, no more back and forth...take it or leave it. Let her know though that she can't have both. And I would most certainly let her sweat the idea of judicial intervention.
If you decide to upgrade your shopping cart, I'm in too! 