Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[PMA_Baby!]

I was going to say the same thing. YOU can CHANGE the DYNAMIC anytime. By NOT ENGAGING. Have you heard the expression about "not getting in the mud w a pig. because the pig likes it and u get dirty..." well u r the one getting dirty. Stop getting in the mud. stop having to justify yourself. set your boundaries and take care of YOU.

Stop the cycle John!! U r the only one that can.