Another interesting thing I noticed about fear in MY working on myself, is that unlike NOW where we are trying to work TOWARD something (our M, our S, our family, our core selves, etc), fear in your life is a motivation AWAY FROM.
interesting.
sometimes fear is tied with self-confidence. when you have fear, you lack self-confidence. so it's best to minimize your fears.
fear causes you to do strange (and sometimes stupid) things.
side note: oh yeah .. whoever coined the term "melty man" .. good one. what's the opposite of "melty man"?