I don't think my W thought I would follow thru on the D either. I think you did everything right except offer your opinion on her employment. I think staying out of those discussions are easier after the D is filed. I just keep telling my self I have no say in what my soon to be EX WIFE does so I am not going to comment on it even if asked. All that happens is you give your opinion that differs from hers and now you are in an argument about something that she is going to do on her own anyway.

Detach! GAL! Do not think about her (try hard) as much. Keep busy!

Last edited by Chuck66; 08/17/10 03:30 PM.
Me 44, W 39, S 6, D 6, M 21
Bomb June 18, 2010
I filed D July 20, 2010
W filed counter suit Aug 2
Rings came off Aug 5, 2010