My situation is very similar to yours, except we never fought. She also has a thyroid problem. I got the same line but after about 3-4 weeks discovered OM. It is just phone/text stuff far as I know. I have been learning that one it is a long tuff emotional roller coaster. If you are apart (which I'm since 6/20 fathers day)you have to do a 180 and change everything. You have to change for yourself first. The hard part is the detaching and I'm having a real hard time. I just had a major setback today (the wife actually talked to me and wanted to share email addresses regarding our kids). She changed her facebook status from single to its complicated. (Here is the roller coaster fighting with yourself trying to figure out what she is thinking) I have learned you can not figure them out nor make them change. So I suggest you work on finding things to do without her GAL=Get a life, change yourself to better improve yourself,keep your head up and chin high. There are experts I consider here like Robx and Coach and a few others I'm sure will pipe in shortly. Keep coming here for support and pep talks as well as researching. Good luck to you my friend and remember we are all in about the same ship here. And if it was not meant to be your better off moving on looking for a better fish in the big sea. (Gosh wish I could practice what I preach). Take care
Mark
Me 36 WAW 24 S 4 D 2(My Kids/her step kids) S15,D14,S10,D11 Love you but not in love with you 6/8/2010 Left/Bomb 6/20/2010 D filed 6/23/2010 M 4 T 5 1/2
