Seperated for 3 months

[f24]

Hello Everyone, I have been visiting the site for a few weeks now reading intensely. My wife and I have been separated for 3 months now. We have two children a D10 and a S2.5, over the last few years after the birth of our son which I was very happy to have come into this world even though I was not good at showing it. I had got caught up in the economy and my job that I focused more on staying employed than I did on our relationship. We got in a big fight on May 9th and my wife walked away stating that we needed some time apart. At the time I agreed that we needed time apart but as time went on it seemed that I was to blame for everything that happened over the last 9 years of our marriage, she said I was controlling and that I had anger issues. She was stating that I had not been there for the kids etc. Just a little over three weeks of being apart she started saying that she was done and didn’t have a marriage that she wanted to save. At this time I have learned that I did all the wrong things even pleaded and begging and disagreeing with everything that she stated. As time went on she still seemed that she still had feelings even though she said she didn’t miss me. She would make statements that I had changed but it was “too little too late”. She also would make statements that she “loved me, but was not in love with me”. I started investigating that someone else may be in the picture. I discovered with my own eyes her leaving OM house one morning about 2 weeks ago. I am looking for what to do from here.