W called this morning and left a VM to say she is putting me back on the store card.
She seems much happier now that I have said it is probably best that we separate. Although she did say she realizes and understands it is not what I want.
At this stage I am tending to agree with her and the only chance this R has is to have a major event.
I am not sure why she ever needed my agreement on this as i never really blocked anything but it seemed like she needed some validation. Then when I gave it to her the big rush to get out ended, she became happier and more pleasant to be around.
to tell you the truth i will probably be glad when she leaves so i can figure out what i want to do with this.
This stuff is so confusing and draining. i just need a break and separation will give me that.
I think I should set up a goal of working towards emotionally supporting her towards separation so long as she continues to say that is what she wants. I cant stop her so why not help her ( not financially of course )
