Another long term relationship bombed

[gr8 day 2B alive]

I could not bring myself together to talk about us or the sitch and decided not to hand over the letter either

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that was a good move.

I've been running through all of what was said last night. There were a lot of questions about why I think our R should continue. Why I don't want to leave. Why I think there I a chance. Why I did not take it seriously last time. According to W she had given me an opportunity.

You really should not be talking about the R.

She seems to be in a wishy washy state of mind right now and will keep flipping back and for until you make a stand.

I'm only saying this b/c it is so much like my neighbors sitch.

It was until he started making decisions for him that the changed her mind.

Again he packed her bag, he told her to get the eff out if she doesn't like it at home.

He made a stand stating, I'm not going to be treated this way anymore.

Now you can dwell on her kind acts and take them for her being ok with the M or you can make a stand show her that you are strong and if she wants to leave, then show her the door.

She will continue to sawy back on forth until you take action.

Don't talk about her trip. When she leaves just say have fun. Thant's it. Do tell her would you will be doing or even call her the whole time.

my 2cents.