Originally Posted By: Piano
He cannot come right out and criticise my H with any authority because my step-mother was his former 4-year affair partner. It started during my mother's pregancy with me.

He feels guilt; my sitch has stirred all that up.


Oh, Piano - my heart is breaking for you!

Your parents, your inlaws, and now you - ALL your marriages faultered when there was a baby on the way?! That's the most heartbreaking pattern I've ever seen! I'm so sorry!