Interesting question. Slept all right with a little help. Still sad about the situation, but there is nothing I can do about it.

It's his problem, his situation, and I just have to let him deal with it as he sees fit. I'll act if and when his actions effect me. If he stops making payments on the house, I have two courses of action. One, the Armed Svcs. Spousal Support Act, and two, filing for maintenence. Either he writes the check to the mtg. company, or to me so I can write the check.

He says so many things that make no sense whatsoever, and I can't ask him what he is talking about. I don't think he knows.