Word of warning I got from my friend tonight. While pushing the jealousy button has some merit and I was all for doing that this weekend, you still do not want to jeopardize any child custody or hearing ruling. I am backing off my invitation until I make sure the legal stuff is done. The risk is greater than the gain. After the D, then the gain will be greater than the risk. Just think this one through.
what you will find just as often is the wife shows up in court with the new live in boyfriend and they are granted custody because they can prove a more stable household. depends on your lawyer bubba.