councelling is out. there's no longer any talk about the quality of our marriage. i was constantly bringing up the topic of analyzing our marriage, that her lack of sex and intimacy was waning, and she use to say that she would try and make things better, but that only lasted a week, and then whenever i brought the subject up weeks later, she would get mad and tell me there's the door.
so we are in it for the kids, and she feels that we are tied together through marriage, and i am not going anywhere, so she can behave the way she wants without acknowledging my needs.
