Just texting with H. He said he's "not here" bc he felt we were getting to the point where he had to hold back not to physically hurt me. He got to the point he was with me for the kids and all the arguing, fighting, and resentment were piling up to where he felt he might get physical. He said he has to do things this way so the kids won't hate him bc he doesn't want to become abusive.
He never was in 14 yrs. But I just said ok. I'm not arguing the situation anymore. He will only see things the way he chooses. I can't change that.
M:28 H:30 DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10 T-14 | M-8
10/08- Bomb 4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program 3/10- WH moved out. 7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug