The latest-we had our first talk last night and she wants to seperate. I started to ask her the hard questions like where are you going to live, how will we divide the time up with the kids, etc. She instantly turned it around saying that I was trying to deny her custody of the kids. I told her that I think she should be in the kids lives but I was not leaving my house. She is the one have the EA and if she wants to seperate then she can move out. I am not going to give up my house so she can have her affair. I just wonder what she is thinking sometimes. If our roles were reversed and I had the affair plus wanted to seperate, she would tell me to go and don't let the door hit me on the way out.
