Have you actually ever told him what YOU want as opposed to constantly trying to cater to HIS needs?
If your end result is to get back together, then maybe you should respond back to him and say something like..."I understand you feel hurt and alone. I need a husband who is willing to treat me with the same respect I give to them. The respect I need and deserve. Sorry you haven't been it." Then hang up.
After he's been chomping at the bit for awhile, you come up with your list of what needs to happen if he wants it to work out...counseling, date nights, whatever. YOU have the power now. Use it wisely.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
