When he said something was 'wrong with him', he definitely meant in the mental department. Depression or bipolar or something. We still haven't talked openly about it.
Originally Posted By: Piano
The way I see your sitch is like this. WH wants to come back to you but he needs you to be moving forward, leading, and he, because of his problems, needs to be lead.
Yes, I totally see this. I worry that this is a habit, though, that needs to be changed for us. But maybe not, maybe that's why we click, I don't know.
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This requires you moving on, moving forward, keeping your back to him. Don't face him head on, but every once in a while look back over your shoulder to check if he is following or not. But do not confront him and ask him "Are you following?". Because he will only be able to say "No" or "I'm not sure" or "I'm ambivalent". Be strong for your little girl, and for WH, who, we think, has some serious psychological issues which are gripping him. He's not reliable right now, but you are. He's weak now, you're strong. If you love him, love him by guiding him but asking him for nothing.
